Electronic social networking has been a pivotal tool for different
forms of personal intimacy. It has been found that users of social media
platforms often have a higher level of self-disclosure. This means that more
often by utilizing social media, people are more willing to share deep levels
of personal information to individuals they’ve met using an online platform at
a rapid rate. More often than not, personal and intimate relationships are
formed quicker online than in person. There are many interesting studies done on
this topic. Being a communication major, I have spent a lot of time analyzing
data that displays personal and intimate relationships formed online and how
the level of self-disclosure expands exponentially faster than relationships
formed face to face. I think this is most interesting because most individuals
who form relationships are perceived as being more stable and reliable. In
reality this is not always the case. There is an awful stigma attached to
couples and relationships that were formed using social media. This is a common
misperception within intimate relationships. Intimate relationships are often gauged
around their levels of intimacy and self-disclosure. Based upon several years
of research, it has been found that self-disclosure can make or break a relationship.
It is very important to know things about your significant other whether it be
a face to face relationship or an online relationship. There is a certain comfort
in being able to share things with other individuals online without being able
to see their nonverbal communication and then feeling odd about sharing some
things. Overall, online relationships tend to develop at a more rapid rate than
those that are formed face to face due to an increased level of self-disclosure.
I really enjoyed reading your blog! That was interesting to read about the research that has been done on the intimacy of online relationships. If my boyfriend and I didn't have Facebook I probably wouldn't have really seen or talked to him again after the party I met him at. I never really thought of online relationships as intimate just because when some people think of intimacy they think of being with someone. For example cuddling with someone, whereas in a strictly online relationship you don't see each other in person. For some people they are cautious of being online because of predators. The show Catfish on MTV fascinates me because some of the people on there talk to their significant others without even meeting them in person and wondering why they don't call or sound different. Then the shows hosts come on and show that the person they were talking to is a fake profile. It is interesting to learn more about intimacy in relationships in regards to social media.
ReplyDeleteI think that people are always going to be more open about what they are talking about online cause they are not going to be singled out in person and therefore embarrassed. This is a very big advantage when it comes to life in the social networking life. I believe that you make a great point that people are able to reveal things in such a way that they feel secure and can share whatever they would like to. Having an online relationship allows you to do these things and be able to be as open as you would and not face the other face to face and have to worry about how they would react.
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